Signs Your Ex Wants You Back – 3 Ways to Tell
Breakups suck. It can be a serious emotional ride dealing with all the ups and downs. It’s pretty common to want to know some signs your ex wants you back or might otherwise be having second thoughts about the breakup. Especially if you are deeply in love with them or thought that everything seemed to be going fine. Here are a few things to look for that may mean that your ex wants you back.
Contact — If your ex wanted to wash their hands of you, they wouldn’t contact you for any reason. One of the signs your ex wants you back is when they contact you either directly or through mutual friends. They might contact you trying to get personal belongings back from you, but there might be a more subtle motive behind that contact. Generally speaking, the more trivial the reason for contacting you, the more they want you back. Calling you “just to talk” shows more interest than calling to pick up their black T-shirt. Heck, even if they just contact you to vent about how they feel, they still might want you back. There isn’t that much difference between love and anger. An angry e-mail just illustrates that they still have feelings for you, which can easily be flipped back toward love.
Rebound Relationships — Sometimes your ex might start to date another woman to make you feel jealous. How can you tell if it’s just to make you jealous or he’s moved on? You’ll know the answer based on how much effort he puts into letting you know that he’s seeing someone new. It will probably hurt to hear it, but it is one of the biggest signs your ex wants you back when he goes out of his way to make it known that he’s seeing someone new. I’ve seen people go as far as getting married just to prove to their ex that they are desirable. These relationships are usually disastrous for the sole reason that they are not relationships based in love, but rather relationships just to make a third person feel bad.
He Tries to Impress You — If your he goes out of his way to impress you, then that is definitely one of the signs your ex wants you back. Has he made it painfully clear to you either directly or through his friends that he just got a new job or a new car or a new personal style? He is trying to impress you and show you his achievements.
The bottom line is you need to read between the lines to find signs your ex wants you back. He isn’t likely going to come straight out and say it, so he is going to be very indirect about it hoping that you will will make the first move toward reuniting. You really need to pay attention only to how he behaves and not to what he says. Remember that old saying “actions speak louder than word.” If his actions tell you that he wants you back, I don’t care if he spends all day telling everyone how happy he is without you, he wants you back. Period.
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