First Date Rules
Once you’re on the first date there are a few unwritten rules you should follow. None of these are set in stone, there may certainly be reasons to break down and be correct in doing so, but as a rule of thumb you would be wise to follow all of these first date tips.
1) Remove all expecatations and concerns from the date
The biggest thing most guys do wrong is simply worrying about trying to be too perfect. I will admit it is very important to make a good first impression. But when you worry too much about every single word or action you actually work against making a good pressure. By trying to be perfect you seem to be more indecisive and controlling. A bad combination.
Put a first date is proper place. If you followed my previous instructions you’re not spending too much money on the date. If it goes badly you’ve only wasted little bit of time and money. And if it goes well you have a wonderful time and a great woman to take out on future dates.
Don’t worry about which one of these will be. Go out and try to have fun. Be enjoyable and energetic. If you in the girl do not match, do not worry about it, try again with another girl.
By relaxing and not worrying about the outcome of the date you’re actually able to converse much more healthy and casual manner in your confidence will seems far higher than if you worry over every little bit of conversation. A first date will either work or it won’t work, there’s no way to try to force it.
2) Limit your time
Guys who try to plan out a lab or it can complicated first dates that a girl will remember forever is almost dooming himself to failure. You should never approach a date thinking that this is going to be something that your future wife is going to be talking about 20 years down the line at your anniversary. Those stores will build themselves. This is the reality. You may have hundreds of first dates before you find the “right” woman for you.
The purpose of the first date is not to create some romantic “Cinderella” type atmosphere and sweep a woman off her feet. The purpose is to prove to her that you are somebody that she wants to spend time with and for her to spend enough time with you to know whether you wish to spend more time with her. That is it.
A first date should be simple and relatively short.
Your best first date should be something low key and fun and only lasting for a limited period of time. This way you do not waste too much of your time and money and neither does she.
If the date is going well many guys will think that is exception to this rule, and will want to pile on more events. This is also wrong. By leaving her after the date that has been going very well you create a situation where she wants to see you again. That is very important. If you give her too much time she can actually begin to get a little bit bored with you and leave with some negative feelings rather than more positive feelings. Any great actor or any decent “dater” should always know to leave them wanting more.
3) Have fun and flirt
Your first date may be short but you want to pack a lot into it. One of the most important things to make sure that is included in your date are chances the build a rapport with the woman.
Here’s why building a rapport and flirting with the woman is essential…
If there is not attraction on a date, it will go nowhere. She may like you, but not ”like” you. That is the horrible, “friend” zone. Where she likes you as a person but there is absolutely zero sexual attraction between the two. Often this comes from your initial contact going the wrong way. Rather than flirting and starting things on the path towards a sexual basis you try to be too nice and any relationship ended up on a purely, “friend” basis.
Try treating all women like your bratty little sister. Teasing her just a little bit, but showing that there is affection behind the teasing. This will make a woman feel you have a lot of confidence and also put her in a position where she slightly wants to impress you. Just remember that there is a fine line between “teasing” and “making fun” of the girl.
Well that has been a lot of First date information for you. I’m only halfway done with these first date tips that I should give you a break now to digest what you’ve read.
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