Get The Girl You Want- Knock Failure with Women on it’s Ass
Are you sick of trying to get the girl you want and failing?
Do you feel that something must be wrong with your technique?
Do you feel you perhaps there is something that -some- guys might know about picking up women that you don’t?
To start, the best way to girl you like is to create sexual tension.
The fact of the matter is that if you feel there are ‘secrets‘ you are missing out on…there actually such “secrets“.
Some guys are “naturals” for attracting women. They are naturally confident. They have faith in their abilities, charm and an easy going manner. They are naturally alpha-males and leaders.
In other words, they are “born” with many of the attraction techniques that women love. They may not be “polished” and have nuance, but they well enough simply from their natural ability.
The bigger secret is that this “pure natural” ability is something partially a myth. There are -some- people who are naturally confident with women and life. It is actually rarer than you may think, though. Most people have to work at this confidence to succeed. It is a building-block process that gets stronger over time, it is not some instantaneous and push-button process.
If you remember nothing else remember this: Nothing of value comes easy, getting the girl you want is no different. It can take a certain amount of time and energy but you can knock failure on it’s ass with a few simple steps, effort to build your confidence and an understanding of sexual attraction.
Confidence and Getting the Girl you Want: I have mentioned this previously, so I will not beat this topic to death, but if you are a guy who is not confident around women, taking steps to “become” more confident and “at ease” around women is essential. Women love confident guys. Work to be that guy. If you do nothing more than that, your success with women will improve greatly, and your chances to get the girl you want will likely triple.
When you are thinking about how to get the girl you want you may not know that there are special attraction switches that you can use to get this girl. You probably think that you are going to have to rely on your “game” and hope that Lady Luck is on your side. If you are going at it this way you aren’t going to do anything but strike out. It is important that you know what you are doing before you try to make any moves.
Is the girl you want right for you? One of the first things that you need to do is decide what girl is right for you. One way to figure this out is to write down a list of things that you are looking for in women. It doesn’t matter how long this list is. You should write everything that you should think of that you want in a woman. This shouldn’t be a list that you show to your buddies and things like that. You want the list to be honest and straight forward. Maybe you want a girl that wants to cuddle but is a little thick. Put this on the list if it is really important to you.
After you have gotten your list together it is time to go get the girl you want. The first thing that you need to do is go where this girl is going to be. Take a look at your list and figure out where a girl like that would go. Are you looking for a party girl or are you looking for a sweet girl. If you are looking for the party girl you most likely will find her at a bar or club and if you are looking for a sweet girl you may find her at the library or at a church.
Don’t Piss into the Wind: Once you know the girl you want you shouldn’t tempt failure by going after girls that fall too far outside of you list. If you are a intelligent guy who wants a girl to bring deep meaning into his life, trying to go attract a party-girl is going to be an exercise in futility (pissing into the wind). She is not looking for a guy like you, you are not looking for a girl like her.
A girl does not have to match your list point-for-point but there should be a lot of crossover. Chances are if you are looking for a certain type of girl, she is looking for a guy like you.
Of course there are ways to get that party-girl if you want to, but it takes effort in pretending to be someone you are not. You are not going to get any sort of serious relationship out of that, but this link can give you some training in attracting women who may not be attracted to you normally.
Making your move: Once you find your target and have her in sight it is time to make a move. You should remember that cheesy pick up lines very rarely ever work and they are mostly used as jokes when women are talking about what a loser guys are. Stay away from pick up lines but you should know what you are going to say in the first five minutes. When you have an idea of what you are going to say this will allow you to avoid any uncomfortable silences that may come up.
Of course, these Pickup Tips for Guys will help you refine your game here a little bit, but the important part is to remember your “C”s
Confident, Confident, Confident
Get the point there?
The Journey of 1000 Miles Begins with a Single Step: For many, the simple idea of getting the conversation started is the hardest part. The “harder” you try, the worse it can sometimes get. Just get it going and let nature take its course. Have a few ready ideas, in case the conversation dies. You do not want awkward pauses. You want to get her talking and at ease quickly.
Remember Cool. Remember Calm. Remember Charisma, and of course remember to portray confidence. They worst thing you risk is failure. 99% of the women out there do not want to “embarrass” a guy. If she does, she is not worth your time and effort anyhow. So take your shot and get her talking. Getting started talking is one of the biggest hurtles that you can jump so once you do that you are going to have smooth sailing if you get the conversation going in the right direction.
The key to getting the girl you want: Connection. After confidence, Connection is the next “key” in getting the girl you desire.
If you want to get the girl you want it is important that you connect with her passion. You should get her talking about things that she enjoys and loves. When you do this you are going to allow her to start thinking with the emotional part of her brain and less with the logical side. This means that she is going to attach you with the positive emotion that she is feeling when she is speaking about that subject. Many times people remember very little of what you hear but they always remember how they felt when you were talking to them.
Body Language: Once you have connected with her passion and shown her your confidence and positive attributes, it is “game on”. You have great shot at getting the girl you want at this point. It is within your grasp. But moving to fast -or too slowlu- at this point can still kill your chances dead in their tracks.
You need to pay attention to her body language.
Use it to gauge if she wants you to take the “next” step or take it slow. When you do this you will be able to get the girl you want.
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